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Charade (1963)
IMDB rating: 8.00
Plot: Regina Lambert returns to Paris from a ski holiday in Switzerland to find that her husband has been murdered. She is later told by CIA agent Hamilton Bartholemew that Charles Lambert was one of five men who stole $250,000 in gold from the U.S. government during World War II, and the government wants it back. The money was not found among his possessions, and Regina can shed no light on its whereabouts. Later that day she is visited by Peter Joshua, whom she had met briefly while on holiday. When her husband’s former partners in crime, who were double-crossed by Charles, start calling her looking for the money, Peter offers to help find it. Thus begins an elaborate charade in which nothing is what it seems to be.
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Directors: Donen Stanley
Actors: Grant Cary,Matthau Walter,Coburn James,Kennedy George,Glass Ned,Marin Jacques,Bonifas Paul,Chelimsky Thomas,Aslan Gregoire,Bernier Marcel,Delfosse Raoul,Donen Stanley,Drake Colin,Comedy,Crime,Mystery,Romance,Thriller,
I can't figure out my emotions in my relationship?
So lets just start with some background information that will help explain how I feel…
In December 2004 I started dating someone and was wrapped up with them until about a year ago, we had broken up a bunch but I could not get myself to let go which led me to get used and abused by this person which took a toll on me emotionally. Around a year ago I started dating someone else that I had been friends with for a very long time and we got serious fast and then about in May we broke up due to them not being able to handle the long distance of our relationship(45 minutes away) Finally after a really hard time of trying to get over this person my best friend introduced me to his cousin which we hit it off. The problem was for a very small time in the start of our relationship I still felt wrapped up in my last relationship. I got past that but since then I can not figure out how I really feel about her, sometimes I am very happy and then the next I feel like I am putting on charade to make everything look ok…I just feel like I don’t even know what love is supposed to feel like anymore and I am just going through the motions? I just haven’t really felt the emotions that go along with a relationship in a very long time, can anyone help me?
First let me clarify a couple of details that seemed clear and some that were wrongly stated… The one that broke up with me because of distance has moved on so I don’t know how to resolve that. Also we didn’t break up in may it was in mid april and I didnt even meet this new girl till July and didn’t start dating until late August so I really wasn’t trying to rush things.
and at no point was this about being able to stay sexually active
Your heart is still 45 minutes away. It was left unresolved. Mileage is no reason to can a relationship. When that was the only excuse to divide, your left with the love that is still there. You have to try to resolve what you left in the past to be able to move on into the future.
Simpletwistoffate | Feb 04, 2010
Tell your girlfriend that you need a break. Tell her that you need to clear your head and that you will get back to her. Tell her your feelings about her, and that you care for her but you also want to make sure that you really love her and not just going through the motions. Just make sure to explain to her that you do in fact care for her, but you don’t want her to be played or get hurt. Just ask her to give you a little time to think. A space to breath is always good.
I hope this helps and I hope you figure out what u want.
Good luck
Melissa | Feb 04, 2010
45 minutes away is nothing if you have a car and gas if you both drive you should take turns going to each other and you should see each other twice a week .
like friday and saturday
sunday through thursday talk on the phone ,text ,email
you can also take the train
Domino girl | Feb 04, 2010
For one thing you are not giving yourself a chance to get over one before starting another, just because you have sex does not mean love each time. You are not going to love everybody. Why do you have to sleep with every girl you hook up with what is wrong with you. Of course you are confused as well you should be, you are treating yourself like you are nothing. Obviously you do not care for this current girl sounds like she is keeping you company and if you have to be arguing with the past girl friend she may not have been the one either, just give yourself a chance to know what true love is, Love is more the how you feel or how she makes you feel, true love comes from the heart not the penis.
Take a break and find out who you are, love yourself before you can love someone else. You sound like some of those girls that you do not want to be with yourself, so check yourself before you reck yourself.
cshar | Feb 04, 2010
Hmm..
Trick one. One thing you must know is that getting over someone is not easy. You need time to cry and just let the hurt and pain heal away.
What you did is you rushed too much into a relationship when you should have been having that time to heal. But its normal, some of us do it so we can stop feeling the pain.
I know how you feel about your current relationship as I am going through the same thing :/ have you tried speaking to her about how you feel about the whole situation? You need to tell her that you need time apart just to sort your feelings together, otherwise her feelings for you will grow stronger and you will find it hard to tell her about the situation, which might lead to you getting hurt again.
Take time out or just go away for some time to think
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