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Definitely, Maybe (2008)
IMDB rating: 7.50
Plot: Romantic comedy: Will Hayes, a 30-something Manhattan dad is in the midst of a divorce when his 10 year old daughter, Maya, starts to question him about his life before marriage. Maya wants to know absolutely everything about how her parents met and fell in love. Will’s story begins in 1992, as a young, starry-eyed aspiring politician who moves to New York from Wisconsin in order to work on the Clinton campaign. For Maya, Will relives his past as a idealistic young man learning the ins and outs of big city politics, and recounts the history of his romantic relationships with three very different women. On the campaign, Will’s best buddy is Russell McCormack. They not only have similar political aspirations, they share the same type of girl problems, too. Will hopelessly attempts a “PG” version of his story for his daughter ad changes the names so Maya has to guess who he finally married. Is her mother Will’s college sweetheart, the dependable girl next-door Emily? Is she his longtime best friend and confidante, he apolitical April? Or is she the free-spirited but ambitious journalist? As Maya puts together the pieces of her dad’s romantic puzzle, she begins to understand that love is not so simple or easy. And as Will tells her his tale, Maya helps him to understand that it’s definitely never too late to go back…and maybe even possible to find a happy ending.
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Directors: Brooks Adam
Actors: Reynolds Ryan,Mason Matthew,Derby Rick,Wiltfong Bob,Chasin Ryder,Benitez Blake,Greenstein Ashtyn,Hartigan Dylan,Comedy,Drama,Romance,
Husband to Wife rape?
Had a works night out the other night and me and my husband both came back to the house very drunk. We had sex that night and fell asleep instantly.
In the morning was watching the morning news and he came downstairs with an erection showing through his briefs. I however was hungover and really not in the mood. I pretended not to notice.
Obviously he had other things in mind and he approached me. I looked at him with my "no" face on and he sat on me. I tried to get up but he put a hand on my breast and pushed me back on the sofa. I started talking to him explaining that I wasn’t up for it so early but he just looked at me and said "you’ll do what you’re told".
Getting annoyed, i playfully hit him across the face which was definitely not a good thing to do. He practically ripped off my dressing gown which was all that I was wearing and took a hold of my neck! Getting a bit scared I said to him that maybe later today we could have a much better session and he didn’t take that for an answer. Again just telling me "you’ll do what you’re told".
He then proceeded to bite me and grip onto me, stuffing himself into me. I’ll leave the details. But let’s just say he was not gentle or loving. Very animalistic.
I don’t understand it. Why did he all of a sudden feel this overpowering desire for me. He is a good man and we are a good couple and nothing like this has ever happened before. Forced sex has always been somewhat of a fantasy of mine but I never seen it in such a scenario as this. I just found it so random. I hadn’t done anything to upset him or seduce him.
Any answers would be great!
if it was forced whether you are man and wife most states still see it as rape. you could have him arrested. as to the why he did it that is something you will have to ask him.
vampyre4blood | Feb 08, 2010
If you do not want sex and didnt encourage him I would say it is rape. Its the womans right to say NO and mean NO.
Little Minx | Feb 08, 2010
Wow…sounds fun to me, but i wasn’t there, and bottom line is no means no, no matter who you are. In my opinion, yes this constitutes rape. Maybe he thought you were going along with him and was super horny…..how was his actions afterward. If it really made you uncomfortable, talk to him about it.
MZ. RO | Feb 08, 2010
rape is about power and control this may be a underlying condition in his mental status but either way if he does it to you he may do it to others maybe you were just the warm up
reeseg1 | Feb 08, 2010
Right here is the deal.
Rape is rape if you said NO to any sexual intercourse or touching even if it is your Husband or long term partner.
Rape is someone sexually interacting with you against your will.
You can go to the police and get him charged but this I imagine will ruin your marriage
Talk to him explain how you feel.
The ball is in your court, do you feel that you can approach the subject privately or make him aware off the Law.
I recon you should have a word with Woman’s Aid and have a chat. It is private and confidential and they only act on your behalf with your permission.
But you did play on which wont go in your favour, men in general need simple commands and you play slapping him is telling him its game on. So live and learn.
Sex can be boring or exciting, he probably came down to spark things up, since you both had a good night out.
You may have given him the wrong signals, and like most people are not aware off that rape still stands in marrige and long term relationships.
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By the sounds off it you went over your head saying its rape as you have not mentioned how much forse you made to stop it and your only consern is him being spontanious, God it is such a turn on when guys are spontanious.
And he probably rememberd that a bit off dominationg sex is your fantasy.
Your hangover clouded your judgment.
Hawkeye85 | Feb 08, 2010
no where in your post did you say you didn’t like it. you may not of asked for it but you said forced sex is a fantasy sooooo……how was it?
J5 | Feb 08, 2010
This clearly sounds like rape.
Slappy Slapowitz | Feb 08, 2010
Maybe you said forced sex is a fantasy of yours and he was trying to give you that fantasy but it didnt go over very well. You may have mnetioned something while you were drunk. It sounds like you need to talk with each other.
The Napster | Feb 08, 2010
Well, have you ever told him of your rape fantasy? If so, there is your answer. He is just trying to help you out. IF NOT, your husband just raped you. And that should leave a sour taste in your mouth. Rape is never O.K.
chiliredkitty | Feb 08, 2010
No means no and yes he did rape you, he was violent and raped you, if done this now expect more to come down the line. he is not a loving good man if forced himself onto you, if he was such a good man would not done what he did and got up and said "okay love later be fine" instead he stuffed you and was rough. do really want to remain married to a man who raped you, i certainly be gone and pressing charges could do it any given time as seems got it in him to do it already!
you said no, also had your no face on, you tried to get up but got pushed down, your dressing gown ripped off you, he bit into your skin, and forced himself inside of you. you were scared, tried to talk self out it, and he still didn’t except no for an answer = rough violent rapist! just because at one point fantasied about it doesn’t mean it to become reality, you didn’t play along you said no and meant it. yes he raped you and i am sick to others blaming the victim all the time, they make it out as your fault all because of past thoughts and idea’s, or because what wore or because married, these people make the victims scared to come forward. a doctor can tell if woman was raped and should get checked out, as forced entry has damage to the front of your vagina where were forced into, while normal sex is scaring to the top of the cervical area instead, this in itself will prove that were raped. its serious matter as if done it this time can do it again thinking your fine with it when your obviously not if asking this kind of question! if not feeling right on it time to leave the home for while, be safe instead sorry when could become more voilent where more scared and worse off from it! don’t listen to others who ask "did enjoy it" or "how was it" all because of a fantasy, a fantasy is just that not reality and in reality right now you were scared, didn’t want it and got hurt, its rape whatever way others try to sugar coat it!
seek help and talk to rape victim centre for other women and men who suffered as you just did help you though this hard time! good luck
Mum of1 | Feb 08, 2010
I agree with J5, you’ve been having fantasies about this for a while, so when it finally hit you, how was it? You said it was random, but did you like it or not? Rape is if you don’t like it and you don’t want it… sounds like you dreamt about it! Maybe not what you expected but, maybe you told him before about this fantasy and he was finally playing it out for you… I don’t know. You said he was a real animal and you fantasized about this for a while… put them together and sounds like you had fun! Next time, think about your fantasy and go with it. Or get mad at him when he’s not hung over
DJ19 | Feb 08, 2010
Um…I found that kinda hot…I’m just saying…I do what I’m told…
<— needs a towel…
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I’m really sick of these women crying rape when their husbands are dominant during sex. Holy crap, lighten up.
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